I've been a member of Five Rings for about four and a half years, and my life has improved in numerous and immeasurable ways. My family and friends know this and understand that they are the only two things that are more important to me than jiu jitsu. Five Rings has a lot to do with that. Tom Oberhue has implemented a carefully designed curriculum based on educational best practices--Tom is a former educator--and the teachings of Saulo and Xande Ribeiro, multiple-time world champions and the heads of Five Rings' parent association, Ribeiro Jiu Jitsu. Classes are segmented by both skill level and objective (instruction, drilling/fitness, and sparring), and coaches apply the most effective teaching techniques after graduating from a rigorous instructors' course. The training is absolutely top notch.
Tom and co-owner Eric have also created a vibrant and supportive community, dispensing of any politics or macho attitude. There is, of course, a competition program (which I've done a couple times) for the more ambitious, but there is also a place for the more casual members. I'm in my early 40s, have a wife and three young children, and a job that can dominate my schedule. But the Five Rings community welcomed me with open arms, and somehow I've been fortunate enough to earn a purple belt. While it feels good to know I could kick the crap out of my younger self, my coaches and training partners continue to humble me on the mat on a daily basis. All part of the process to becoming the best version of myself.
And so, I'm in it for the long haul, and I've brought along my wife (for a bit), children, 67-year old father, and even a couple of friends that have been game enough to give it a try. You should, too.